Domestic violence is on the increase lately
and many are of the opinion that the victims would have been noticing some traits in their partner but ignore it or think he/she will get over it. Some people never did, they carried it on to their marriage and unleash it at the slightest provocation. But an unnamed lady will not allow that to be her case.
A lady has allegedly called off her wedding after she was reportedly embarrassed and assaulted by her fiance at an eatery while holding meeting towards their D-day. It was reported that her fiance poured water on her face which dripped to her clothes in public place just because he was angry. The angry lady was said to have quietly walked away from the scene embarrassed but determined as she made up her mind not to go ahead with the wedding plans again. The said lady got home and told her family what happened between them at the eatery and his action. She was lucky as her family members are said to be in support of her decision but for her mother who reluctantly supported her decision. The guy’s family has been begging her to have a rethink of her decision now.
A Facebook user, Olajumoke Fayemi, shared the story on her profile page on Tuesday, February 20. Read her full post below: “She called off her wedding just few days to the date. She felt humiliated and assaulted. A man she thought she was going to spend the rest of her life with had the effrontery to pour water on her face and clothes because he was angry. She knew he had a bit of anger problems. But it never occurred to her he could unleash the anger to her publicly. This happened in an eatery while they were having a meeting. The introduction has been done few months back and invitation cards shared to family, friends, colleagues and church members.
The wedding comes up, first week of March. Besides, lot of money has been spent in preparation for the occasion. Last week, dude invited the babe to meet him in one of the eateries so they could sort out some issues. She came as agreed not knowing that the meeting would be the last between both of them. Somehow, there were argument between them and dude out of anger poured the water he was drinking on her. She stood speechless, dazed and confused. Somehow, she managed to pull herself together and walked out of the spot with her wet clothes. She got home broken but made up her mind to discontinue with the marriage. Of course, she didn't waste time to let her mom and sisters know about the strange development. And her decision was to call off the wedding. Sadly, her mom was not completely in support of her decision but with the backing of her siblings, they were able to convince her. The whole family is backing her. To them, the marriage is over. However, dude and family would not take any of that. They have been begging and sending emissaries to her and her family. The pastor of her church is not left out. He has invited her but she is still holding her ground. No marriage. She is a bit lucky, because she and her family are together in this decision.
What do you make of this?"
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